If you are a Brit and planning a trip to New York City there are a few things you should know before your trip. These are the top 5 things that completely confused me when I first arrived in NYC.
I love NYC
I just want to say I LOVE New York City, it’s my home from home and I think the people are incredible! So no disrespect whatsoever in meant in this post. When I started visiting my Mum who lives there I had so many embarrassing moments because of these differences in language and customs. Having been several times now for some extended stays, I’m feeling less like a clueless tourist.
One of the big things for me to get my head around was some of the language differences: and I don’t mean “tomato” or “oregano”, or even “aluminium” (we all know us Brits are right about those 😉 ). I’m talking about the big ones, the ones that leave you feeling a bit lost, confused and often a bit embarrassed.
So here’s five things you will mostly likely hear that will make no sense to you at first as a British person, and what they actually mean:
1. Pocket Book
I still struggle with this one…I just don’t get it. Please if anyone can explain this to me? I would be super grateful. In the UK a pocket-book is a notebook that fits in your pocket. In the USA a pocket-book is a handbag. It has nothing to do with books or pockets, well unless it’s a pocket for your books, although that would be a book bag surely? Anyway, it’s a handbag so don’t get confused about books and pockets.
2. Public transport
Don’t ask for a return, they will just look at you like you’re a strange foreigner. Ask for a round trip instead (this one I can get on board with). Also in New York, you don’t stand in-line, you stand on-line.
3. Using the toilet
Don’t ask for the toilet ask for the bathroom or the restroom. It’s seen as a bit rude to talk about toilets. This one I find so funny. I’m not taking a bath, and I’m most definitely not having a little rest in there…
If you don’t eat all of your food they will wrap it up so you can take it home. This is my favourite one! If you ate in a restaurant in the UK and asked for your leftovers to be wrapped up and taken home they would think you were a bit strange. We just don’t do it. But we totally should! I mean if you have paid for it and there was too much to eat why not take it home?
When you go out for drinks the bar staff keep your bank card. I got so confused when this first happened! I didn’t quite catch what the bartender asked me so being British, I smiled and nodded. Now this has some pros and cons. Pros are you don’t have to keep queuing at the bar and paying. Cons are the drunker you get the less you care how much you are spending!
I know the last three aren’t specific to NYC they are pretty common all over the USA.
I’d love to hear about your experiences of travelling and getting confused by these small differences in language and customs, so make sure to leave me a comment below.